How to Be Not Otherwise

by Jessica Brookman in ,


FACT: You can have any lifestyle you want if you can bear the cost of what it takes to get there.

Read More


How to Break Your Own Heart

by Jessica Brookman in


A few weeks ago, friend of mine posed these questions:

​Why do we (a certain breed of lady) do the "non-boyfriends" and the inevitable drama, despite our quite loud protests? Because we're subconsciously petrified of being bored? Because we believe that love might only be love if there's some major sacrifice, or trials to bear? Why do we end up with man-children that need so much maneuvering?
Here is my answer...
Read More


Linklettes * 9

by Jessica Brookman


Did you know that YouTube is the second largest search engine on the planet? Plus more stupid stuff on love, style, and embarassing yourself in your dating life...

Read More


How to Break Up With the Non-Boyfriend Part 2

by Jessica Brookman in


FACT: Great sex is addictive like heroine. But it's not enough to keep me high.  

So, riddle me this, internets:

Is it actually fucking unreasonable to expect dating to be anything short of melodramatic in a town full of drama queens?! 

Maybe it's time for 12 steps...

Read More