How to Be in Love in Los Angeles

by Jessica Brookman in ,


FACT: ​NOTHING LASTS FOREVER. HAVE A GOOD FUCKING TIME ANYWAY. 

Hey assholes, remember when Tennyson wrote that it was better to have loved and crashed and burned than to have been a pussy all along alone in your studio apartment? I might have paraphrased some of that. For that, I am sorry. But I refuse ​to apologize for the sentiment. 

A few days ago, I was trolling YouTube for some audiovisual inspiration and I stumbled on this short film produced by Oliver Peoples set to Brindo by Devendra Banhart. It served its purpose, but as I realized where it was filmed -- John Lautner's Rainbow House in Nichols Canyon -- it also triggered a surge of nostalgia. Or oxytocin. 

As the first in two etymology lessons today, the word brindo is spanish for toast, as in the kind you make with champagne. The following is a story about living in Los Angeles. It is a story about french new wave film, mid-century modern architecture, and the hollywood hills. It's a story about the warm, golden light of long afternoons. 

Needless to say, it's also a story about love.​ 

xoxo, Jessa

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The WORST Valentine's Gift Guide Ever - Dudes

by Jessica Brookman in


The gift guide for lady valentines is up. And now what to get your dude friend. 

*Note - This gift guide may be skewed by the fact that I currently live in the Silverlake neighborhood of Los Angeles, California.

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Linklettes * 6

by Jessica Brookman in ,


LINKLETTES - The week in sexy. 

NOTE: Now on Mondays to help turn brains (mine included) back on every week...

THIS WEEKS MUST READ: THE LUXURY RENTAL GIRLFRIENDThe New York Observer published an article on escorts (and otherwise non-wife-in-training providers of the GFE). Whoa. Thoughts? 

Plus, more talk about prostitutes and psychoturbulent trippy videos inside...

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